Los jóvenes ven… (RELACIONES)
CULTURA Y RELACIONES: “Dime con quién andas… y te diré…quién eres”
La asamblea va a comenzar, pero el trabajo previo viene de lejos, llevamos un ver sintetizado. Sí los jóvenes llevan tiempo pregutándose en que cultura viven, cómo les afecta y que está aportando ellos. Para caminar es bueno saber donde estamos y por qué. Os sirvo en varios post lo que ellos sienten y ven. Porque los jóvenes piensan, sienten y hacen. Este movimiento de estudiantes cristianos pretende ayudar desde la pedagogía de la acción a crear una nueva cultura.
Tras nuestras reflexiones a lo largo de este curso podemos afirmar que por lo general admitimos que muchos de los estereotipos que hay sobre la juventud se confirman en el modo de relacionarse, aunque no difieren mucho de los adultos en sus características fundamentales:
– Notamos un ambiente de relaciones muy superficiales ligadas sobre todo a la diversión como elemento central, en este sentido para estar integrados se sigue la corriente.
– Los modos de relacionarse se establecen fundamentalmente desde lo emocional y lo sentimental, y en este sentido se arriesga más desde el deseo que desde planteamientos ideológicos y formales. Hay un centramiento muy fuerte en la afectividad del “yo”, y desde pequeños somos educados en esa dirección.
– El lenguaje, símbolo propio de la relación se ha tecnificado, haciéndose rápido e instantáneo, muy emocional, con lo que tiene de frescura, pero con la ambigüedad de verse empobrecido en una rudeza y pobreza expresiva, muy twuizterizado. No vamos tras pensamientos sino tras frases
– Lo central lo ha ocupado la máxima del “carpe diem”, vivimos el momento como estructura fundamental de la vida.
– La relación viene muy estructurado desde el consumo, se consumen relaciones…
SIN EMBARGO:
– No valen la comparaciones con otros tiempos, porque realmente cualquier tiempo pasado no fue mejor… las relaciones de hoy están abiertas y llenas de posibilidades única y de una riqueza alucinante:
Contacto directo y transparente; facilidades de encuentro y comunión; realidad universal y globalizada; información directa y al día, como al minuto; posibilidades de viajar y conocer, de encontrarse; descubrimiento y encuentro de culturas, de pueblos, de vivencias…
– Los medios de comunicación social no están mostrando el rostro real de los jóvenes, sus inquietudes y aspiraciones:
- Suelen mostrar reiterativamente: botellón, drogas, sexo sin orden ni concierto, perros, consumismo, diversión…
- No se llega a los sentimientos profundos, a los esfuerzos diarios, a la dificultad de integrarse en la sociedad, en la dependencia, a la creatividad, a lo solidario…
EN LA JEC:
– Estamos en el mismo barco y nos afectan para bien y para mal las mismas características, pero notamos que en los procesos si entramos la cabeza y el corazón comienzan a ocurrir y a subrayarse cosas que parecen interesantes como las siguientes:
Concepción de la amistad y de compartir la vida, expresándonos desde lo que vivimos, pensamos y sentimos.- Vivimos el presente cuestionándonos cosas de cierta envergadura sobre nuestro ser y hacer, aspirando a:
- Ser más protagonistas de nuestras vidas y más maduros.
- Aprender la tolerancia pero desde la rebeldía y el deseo de ser solidarios a favor de otros.
- Se nos plantea la posibilidad de asumir responsabilidades que exigen cierto sacrificio y deber, desde la generosidad como criterio de vida.
- Aprendemos a ver: nuestros egoísmos, descompromiso, consumos, despistes y superficialidades.
- Nos educamos en la mirada de nosotros mismos y de la realidad utilizando elementos claves de nuestra personalidad y de los mejores valores:
- Afectividad, disponibilidad, comprensión, compromiso, luchadores, universales, inquietos…
- Vamos descubriendo un sentido vital y existencial que nos mueve a mirar la vida como proyecto en nuestras manos personales y comunitarias, y sentimos el deseo de aportar algo de nosotros mismos para la construcción de un mundo mejor para todos. Vivimos la relación como participación para todos: “ni me callo ni te callo”
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